Okay guys. I finally found a great guy. And after talking to him about my love for diapers he agreed to let me diaper him so he can decide if he will be interested or not. Now. My question for you…. When I diaper him he is always soft and small. Usually small enough it kind of looks like his penis is sucked inside of him. So, when he starts to get an erection before he pisses it points up. Then he pees right out of his diaper. How can I get it to stay down? Should I make him hard before I diaper him? How do you all do it?