• Jane Blackman posted an update in the group Desperation and losing control 5 years, 1 month ago

    I love to hold on for as long as possible, and enjoy standing in the bath in my knicks and tights and weeing myself when the pressure gets too bad. I’ve had some close calls in public, but thankfully made it at least into a cubicle, fingers crossed. I would be mortified.

    • Welcome to the group it’s good to have you here and thanks for sharing what you enjoy, I would really enjoy seeing you desperate 🙂

    • Thank you @desperationlover1 for the welcome! I must admit that the though of a man knowing that I’m holding on and trying to conceal my need gives me quite a naughty thrill. I try to be discrete when I’m out in public but I do often wonder if anybody has noticed my discomfort!

    • @jumpingjacks I would find it really arousing to know that you are holding but trying to hide it 🙂

    • I tend to start talking faster and shifting around, crossing my legs when things get to emergency levels, but try to go before it gets too obvious, as I blush easily. It’s a fine balance between the thrill of the pressure in my bladder/bottom, and the risk of seriously embarrassing myself.

    • It’s a good job you can’t see me know – my cheeks are scarlet, but I’ll answer! If I’m in company I do my very best not to pass wind but am often desperate too relieve the pressure. When it gets to that stage I excuse myself. When out and about I certainly do fart if I can get away with it, but always have a quick check that nobody is too near. Oh and you have to be careful…I once misjudged things on a (thankfully) solo country walk, and ended up in a right mess!

    • @jumpingjacks That sounds amazing I would love to see you in that state and would comfort you if you did have an accident. When you are getting desperate do you fart?

    • @jumpingjacks would you mind if we carried on chatting in private message?

    • I try not to fart in company! Sometimes you just can’t help it. I find it’s worse when I am walking, and find myself tooting with each step as I try to hang on. If there anybody nearby then I try to keep everything in, but I usually make my excuses before anything embarrassing happens.

    • Feel free to PM me! I can chat for a little while…