On January the 5th, (one month before my birthday) my now Husband of 8 years has filed for a divorce. He think I was cheating sexually on him when i was not. He knew before we dated about my fetishes and now tells me it is gross. Calls me ever name in the book and so on. Now i am so hurt and confused I dont know what to do. I did brake one promise by having someone come into the house. He was also a pant wetter. That is what we did and i hurt my back by moving a frig by myself. so my friend cracked and massaged my back. I am so lost, hurting and gone now.