Have you ever had the realization someone might know what you do?

For me there have been a few but the most recent is a girl that lived next door to me several years ago. She is now working at a coffee shop owned by the same company I work for, but it wasn’t until a couple of visits to the café I began to realize she knew me. During that visit she hinted we knew each other but didn’t say where or when and made it obvious it was up to me to remember. After a few move visits and hints I still had no idea until she said, “ok well do you remember when you lived in *********** in the house at the end of ******** Street. I lived beside you with my parents”. That immediately reminded me of who she was and how annoying she was, although I didn’t tell her that.

At the time she was quite young and used to come over a lot with one of her friends. I became good friend with her parents, and we spent quite a lot of time at each other’s houses, so her visits didn’t seem suspicious at the time. That was until today when she came out with my coffee and sat down at the table where I was seated. After talking about the time I spent living beside her she said “I shouldn’t tell you this but do you want to know what my friend and I used to do” when I replied “yeah ok” she said, “we both really liked you and used to spy on you in your bathroom by laying on the roof of the garden shed looking through the trees between the shed and your house”. That came as quite a surprise, but it got even more interesting when she said admitted to having a key to my house and sneaking in “a lot” while I was at work.

Suddenly the realization of just how much she must have known hit me and I just sat there with no idea what to say next. With that she stood up and said, “its ok your secret is safe with me, besides your not the only one”. As she walked back into the café, she looked at me and said, “hope I haven’t scared you off, see you next time”.

Her admissions really stunned me, and I have spent the afternoon thinking about what she said. Its also made me wonder if the odd occurrences in that house now have an explanation.

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  1. The last couple of day the girls was either off work or out that back somewhere but not today. After ordering my coffee I sat at one of the tables in the corner, hoping she would come out and that’s exactly what she did. After sitting down, she asked me if I remembered some of the times, we lived next to each other which I did. that gave me the opportunity to ask her what she did when she snuck in my house and she was quite keen to tell me, or at least the first time. she had developed a fixation with me a while before and found my spare set of keys. After a while she decided to sneak in to have a look around but mostly to go in my bedroom, which was the one room she had never been in. I had never allowed to go in there and that had made her very curious. She admitted to sneaking in there all the time but didn’t say what she did.

    I didn’t ask her about it but one of the occurrences that made me wonder at the time was someone had been laying on my bed. The other was that my favorite sleeping underwear and shirt had been moved. It was only ever a suspicion and I just put it down to my dog laying on bed while I wasn’t home. Another suspicion I often had was the clothes in my washing basket had been moved around. Again, I didn’t ask her about it but when stood up to go back to work she said. “you’re the one that got me into the same secret you have, that’s the other thing I used to do at your house, I know it sounds gross but used to put your underwear on that you had done it in and wearing them under my panties, I loved how that felt”.

    After a bit of a silence she then said, “I can’t believe I’m telling you this but maybe it’s because I always wanted to when you lived next to us”. With that said she told me the days she was working next week and went back in the café. She seems to rather keen to talk to me about it and I am very keen to find out more.

  2. I always think people know what I do. I have had one person call me out for wearing a diaper but I denied it and the conversation went back to normal. At one point when I was 11 or 12 my parents asked me why I wore diapers and I said it was bedwetting and as far as the know I grew out of that.

  3. Hi busywettinggoodnite, I got quite good at hiding it but was also discovered quite a few times. When that happened, it was like a deer in the headlights moment until an excuse came to mind. That was amazingly fast but its highly likely some of my excuses were implausible when I was young.

    One time I remember getting discovered was during a camping trip with friends. We were all around 18 and I had done it in my underwear by the time we got to the camp site. When we unpacked, I had to get on the roof rack of the four-wheel drive and although I waited until no one was around one of my friends came up and said, “hay pass the stuff down”. I didn’t see him come up behind me and I was wearing soccer shorts with a very narrow crotch. That was definitely a deer in the headlight moment and after about the third or fourth item I knew he had seen what was in my underwear. He didn’t say a word but his eyes got the size of dinner plates, then returned to normal.

  4. My ex neighbor has made some amazing admissions and seems rather keen to tell me more each time I go to the cafe. Some of them so far have been, stealing my underwear, laying in my bed and talking photos of me from her then secret hiding spot. She also told me about a time I got drunk at a party down the road, then said “you were so drunk I bet you don’t remember what me and ***** did to you”. I don’t remember at all but at the time going out drinking was quite a normal thing for me to do. Today when I got a coffee, she asked me if I still wore my favorite underwear to bed. When I told her I did she said, “that’s cool, maybe I might sneak in your house again”. She then said it was just a joke. I was to slow to respond with the response I think she wanted but next time I will make sure I’m not tired like I was today.

  5. Airborne, yeah a lot of my excuses were far fetched but I always just denied wearing a diaper because nobody ever actually saw me in a diaper the would just smell it or recognize that I was moving weird because I was wearing one or something. My parents at one point found some in the trash that were used but I claimed I had been wetting the bed. It worked out perfectly cause around the same time I had been pretending to wet the bed so they would buy me goodnites cause I was really nervous when I would do it myself. I eventually figured out how to get them online without leaving any trace to me. At one point some got delivered when I was not home but thankfully my parents never opened any of my packages. I also at one point had a friend who wore goodnites to bed sleepover and he brought a few just in case and even though I would take them and use them i just claimed they were his because he would stay over my house quite often.

  6. Busywettinggoodnite,
    I remember telling a teacher the reason I had done it in my underwear was because the police had closed the toilets while they looked for a criminal that had escaped from prison. It was a spur of the moment excuse and as expected she didn’t buy it at all. I don’t remember exactly what she said but it was something like, “and you expect me to believe that do you”. Before my excuse she had told me how she could see my underwear while I was sitting at my desk before lunch. The interesting part was after she made her comment, she didn’t suggest I got the toilet or change my underwear and just told me to sit down at my desk. As the lesson went on, she kept looking in my direction and I began to wonder exactly what she was looking at.

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