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     diaperedpanties updated 1 year, 9 months ago 9 Members · 17 Posts
  • likkalikkahole

    Member
    March 3, 2019 at 11:46 pm

    Has anyone had any experiences with bringing up your fetish with a lover for the first time, especially if you weren’t sure how they would react? Some things I’m interested in learning about are: How long did you wait before you told them? What were their reactions? I hope there are at least some happy stories on this, but I have to imagine that in some cases there has been some shock and tough conversations, maybe periods of adjustment and/or conciliation, and some cases where things just didn’t work out.

    A reason I’m curious about this is I’ve never discussed my poop fetish with anyone in the flesh (yes, you could say I feel somewhat unfulfilled). I’m currently single, but I hope that in my future relationships I may find someone who will try to have some tolerance for my strange desires, even if they’re unwilling to go through with them. There’s some fear, too, that I may lose someone special out of their disgust and judgment, but I suppose that’s a bridge I may need to cross. My expression of the fetish manifests as a desire to pleasure a woman while she poops (through intercourse, cunnilingus, or fingers), watch as she poops, clean her afterwards, or have her poop between my legs while sitting on my lap, or panty pooping or diaper play (not necessarily all at the same time, obviously). I like to think this would be easier for someone without the fetish to handle than if, say, for example, I wanted to poop on the woman (no judgment on anyone), but I know lots of people have lots of different limits and levels of comfort.

    I have had women give me golden showers and pee in my mouth, after they overcame their initial shock (one didn’t overcome that shock, but that was a one-night stand situation), but I tend to think the pee fetish has gained some acceptance over the years, while the poop fetish is still over the line for most of mainstream society.

    Anyone who’s willing to share their experiences, I really appreciate!

  • ishitpants2

    Member
    March 4, 2019 at 5:09 am

    I had a female/woman/lady (take your pick) friend – no sex – who revealed to me in a phone conversation that she had a shit fetish and that she liked to watch her boyfriends take a dump. I said “No way, you too? I love to dump in my pants.” Long story short, she wasn’t into pants pooping until I had mentioned it. Then, she tried it and orgasmed, so she was sold on the practice. We had many a phone conversation about pooping pants after that and we developed and shared some interesting techniques — i.e. standing, sitting, squatting. But, we never did it together or discussed it when we went out in public or to dinner, etc. Eventually we “broke up” – over a New Age seminar of all things!

  • likkalikkahole

    Member
    March 7, 2019 at 10:26 pm

    Thanks for sharing, ishitpants2. Sorry to hear you two are no longer friends. It sounds good that you had someone live to share your kink with for a while though!

  • ilovesc

    Member
    March 8, 2019 at 2:21 am

    I’ve spent years trying to get my female partner to do scat. But it’s just not her thing.
    As for disclosure, I think she really knows it’s y thing but just does not want to ‘go there’, which is fine.
    I’ve eaten her shit on a few occasions when I’ve got a dirty finger from fingering her asshole, but that’s all. I really really enjoy rimming her, but even that she pulls away just as I get ‘into it’.
    I sometimes can get her to piss on me, but that’s all.

  • likkalikkahole

    Member
    March 9, 2019 at 6:46 pm

    Thanks, ilovesc. If you don’t mind me asking, how long were you together when you first told her about your fetish, and what was her reaction?

    • ilovesc

      Member
      September 30, 2019 at 7:00 pm

      We’ve been together for a long time, I’ve snuck in a few nibbles in that time. I think she knows but simply chooses to ignore it.
      She knows dirty sex turns me on and says she gets that, but she also just says pee and poop are a turn off for her.

  • Anonymous

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    March 10, 2019 at 12:34 pm

    Me and my gf had been dating for 5 days when I decided to tell her about my fetishes, but I only told her about my fart fetish at first. About 2 weeks later she said that she really wanted to try peeing on me so I decided to explain to her my scat fetish. Luckily she was cool with it and open to trying it out. A month later we were at her grandparents house when she told me to follow her. She took me to the hallway and put my hand against her ass. I was expecting her to just fart but she quickly pushed out a huge loud of mushy shit in her leggings. We went to the bathroom and did a quickie afterwards and it was amazing.

    We have been farting shitting and pissing for each others pleasure for 5 years now. She eventually told me that she actually was an ovarian cancer survivor and was 12 years old when she figured out. Because of this she eventually had lost her bladder control and couldn’t hold her bowel movements, so she had to wear diapers for a year and a half and she had plenty of real accidents during that time. So maybe she was more willing to try my fetishes than other people usually are because of her previous experiences with messing from childhood..

    I have told 8 people about my fart fetish and 3 of those people know of my scat fetish. My gf is the only one who has actually done scat with me but three of the other women friends I still talk to and hang out with them and they purposely fart in front of me since they know I like it. One of them braids my hair which usually takes a couple hours so she just farts when she needs to around me. I also told my girlfriends sister and she is super attractive but farts more than anybody I know so it’s nice when she is around. The 3rd is one of my friends mom who I started having sex with about 4 years after high school. She would purposely fart for me during sex. Out of the other 5 women I told my fetish to only 3 of them were completely turned off by my fetishes. The other 2 I have told seemed interested but I’ll never know if they are because one of them is now married and the other moved to Indiana

  • gooodguy

    Member
    March 11, 2019 at 12:27 pm

    I told my wife about 5yrars into our marriage. She began streaming Scat on the phone while we had sex and actually commented saying “oh, that wasn’t a really big one”. So, I convinced her to shit on me. She was a bit shy and never gave more than a little nugget but finally admitted that she was uncomfortable. We don’t do it any more but she did send a video once from the bathroom..did a reach-around with her cell phone. She thinks my fetish has to do with dominance .it has nothing to do with that. I thinks it more the taboo and that “women don’t shit” story we’ve been told as kids

  • likkalikkahole

    Member
    March 13, 2019 at 10:56 pm

    Thanks all for your responses and being willing to share. Fart505, sounds like you’ve had at least some good fortune thanks to open-minded lovers and your own courage opening up about your kinks, and I congratulate you! I’m also very glad for her as well, it sounds like she has fought hard and beaten her illness, and that’s a very happy story. Gooodguy, sorry your wife doesn’t fully understand and wasn’t comfortable and hasn’t fully embraced, but for whatever it’s worth to you, I’m glad she has stayed with you and made at least some attempt. You both have given me courage that it’s worth it to be open and honest about our strange desires and that love can prevail, or at least that in many cases people are not so judgmental that all need be lost. I guess it’s like what they said in that old beer commercial, “Fortune favors the bold.” Thank y’all for sharing your stories!

    • This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by  likkalikkahole. Reason: spellin correction
  • djjazzubuck

    Member
    May 13, 2019 at 4:19 am

    I’ve never found a woman willing to poop for me, but my ex-wife would pee and public and pee her panties for me. I’ll write up some stories sometime.

  • likkalikkahole

    Member
    May 15, 2019 at 11:38 pm

    Sounds fun, djjazzubuck, sounds like she was a bold one!

  • brokenheart22

    Member
    June 6, 2019 at 6:09 pm

    I try my best to be honest fairly early on. I see no point in getting too invested in someone if they would treat me with revulsion for my interests or any of my other deviations from social standards, such as my weight.

  • diaperedbear

    Member
    June 10, 2019 at 6:11 pm

    Fortunately for me my girlfriend and I are both gross! She loves nothing more than when I sit on her face and fill my underwear right there. The term “stink slut” gets thrown around a little. I’ve watched her fill her own share too and always enjoyed feeling the load. We’ve worn and used (sometimes each others!) diapers together in the past too. The soggier the better! I’m incredibly lucky to have found someone on the same wavelength as me in terms of fetishes and also with real life “normal” stuff. Been together 5 years now 🙂

  • likkalikkahole

    Member
    June 12, 2019 at 11:43 pm

    Brokenheart2, that’s a good insight, but how/when do you figure is a good time to break the news to a prospective lover? I’d imagine if one is brave, of considerable inner strength, and takes a very casual approach to dating/love/sex, one might test the waters very early on, in the first few dates maybe. If feelings are developed first, or if two people meet in the same social circle, I think it gets a little more complicated. I imagine a scenario where one tells a girlfriend/prospective girlfriend, it doesn’t go well, she tells her girlfriends over brunch…well, maybe not over brunch, she and they would probably lose their appetites, but you get what I’m saying… and pretty soon, all one’s friends, coworkers maybe, etc., are suddenly a lot quieter around them and looking at them funny, because…they know that one is into weird poop stuff, you know? I can’t speak for everybody, but I for one don’t want all my friends to know about my fetishes/kinks. Of course, at some point one takes the risk, i guess, and there are success stories. Would you say it’s worked out well for you more often than not?

    Diaperedbear, that’s really great, I’m happy for you and your girlfriend. If you don’t mind sharing, was it you or her that broached the subject first? Did you both happen to be into it from the start, or did one of you acquire the fetish via the other, or was it something different?

    • diaperedbear

      Member
      June 13, 2019 at 7:11 pm

      We both already had our respective fetishes independently and started talking online, which in turn lead to a friendship outside of “just kink stuff” which in turn lead to more romantic feelings. So it’s just always been part of it really.

  • likkalikkahole

    Member
    June 14, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    That’s amazing, diaperedbear, thank you for sharing!

  • diaperedpanties

    Member
    October 16, 2019 at 5:08 pm

    Im married and have often wondered how to tell my wife. She is currently pregnant and about to pop. She told me jokingly that I needed to find her some adult diapers to wear after the baby because the ones from the hospital suck. I already have a case of nice adult diapers…sitting in a diaper full of shit as we speak. Im going to give a pack to her after the baby. Im trying to think of a way to introduce diapers to her as a fetish. Like when she puts one on ill put one on as a joke….i dunno what do you think? Obviously no sex will be involved for awhile but at least maybe i could say its sexy wearing them together and eventually have an overnight “accident” lol
    The ultimate goal would be both pissing and shitting in them and then having sex. But id settle just for diaper sex!

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