“Fapper’s Remorse” is supposed to be a negative male psychological response to orgasm after masturbating.
1 – It is often described as an inrush of shame based feelings both about masturbating and HOW you masturbated.
2 – It’s a double whammy, and probably started in social conditioning of childhood (i.e. touching yourself is bad, you’ll go blind, it’s so shameful what you have done, what if the neighbors found out, etc.)
3 – We can overcome so much from childhood, yet many of us carry the sexual shame based conditioning with us into adulthood — sometimes forgetting about it or successfully repressing it (the shame based feelings) until we achieve orgasm. Then the “refractory period” starts, and while we are “down” from our sexual high, our shame comes to the front of our thinking. Some men have reported throwing out all their porn files as a result of “fapper’s remorse” because “they felt so dirty.”
4 – For those of us with a fetish, especially a scat fetish, the problem multiplies because it isn’t just the masturbating that is shamed, it is HOW we chose to do it ( i.e. shit in pants, piss in pants, panties, jeans, etc.) that is also shamed. (i.e. it goes against toilet training).
Yet, here we are happily shitting our pants, sharing our feelings about it, watching pictures and videos of it… so the shame does not control us entirely. It just swells up like a balloon after orgasm.
So, Pants Poopers how do you deal with “fapper’s remorse”, if you get it?
I don’t get it anymore. I used to when I was younger, but it was more to do with the scat component than the actual masturbation. I guess as I’ve gotten older I’ve just accepted it as part of who I am so I don’t feel that way anymore.
I no longer get it either. I too have accepted this as it’s part of my ID and there’s no way of breaking that. In the past I would go for long periods of not pants-pooping, throw away underwear (regretfully), and say to myself no more! Then that desire would come over me and I’d start all over again collecting underwear, going for “walks” and “bike rides”, sitting in stinky pants, etc.
Now that I’ve been forcefully retired and left alone pretty much the whole day, I do as I want when I want and that usually means having a nice stinky load in my pants too followed by a nice jerk-off session too when I can.