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  • Have you told anyone about your fetish?

     Anonymous updated 10 months, 3 weeks ago 35 Members · 41 Posts
  • poopandpeemypants

    May 6, 2019 at 4:41 pm

    If so, what did they say?

  • ishitpants2

    May 6, 2019 at 8:10 pm

    I havnen’t told anyone and I fear ever having to. I can’t help it, I feel ashamed of it. Not enough to stop doing it, but enough that I am very guarded and careful so no one discovers anything. Of course, this does nothing to build up my self-esteem.

  • ninetales

    May 7, 2019 at 12:14 am

    Nope, nobody knows about any of them and half of the stuff I’m into isn’t exactly widely acceptable to most people, but even with everything I am into I do have my limits on things.
    And the only people who do know are those online on specific websites I join.
    And pretty sure if my parents would have me see a psychiatrist even they ever found out about any of them either that or I would probably be in a nut house.

  • hector

    May 19, 2019 at 1:12 am

    Just one person. He’s an escort. I once paid him to poop for me, since I am not able to bring myself to ask that of anyone I know.

    He was pretty on board with it. He has probably seen weirder stuff. At first he was kind of embarrassed, specially when he let lose a first fart, but he got over it pretty quickly and just went for it. He wasn’t turned on by it but was quiet understanding. After we were done, he asked a couple of questions, nothing too judgy or intrusive.

    I only met him once but we keep in touch so, I don’t know, maybe it’ll happen again someday. I don’t think he had any issue with it.

  • wetcrotch1001

    May 19, 2019 at 2:53 pm

    I told my friend ( with benefits) about it after we were having a conversation about fantasies. he asked if i had any that were so embarrassing i couldnt tell anyone. so i thought, “screw it, you asked”. I told him that i love the idea of a guy shitting himself in briefs and me doing the same whilst kissing and making out. turned out that turned him on too and we did it together the following week. we still meet up now and do it and is still as horny as the first time

  • djjazzubuck

    May 19, 2019 at 7:08 pm

    I’ve tried telling a few women I’ve talked to online and/or dated but my exercise only entertained my desire to see her pee her panties and pee in public. I’d really like to see a woman poop in the toilet and even poop her pants and the resultant bulge in her panties too.

  • horwalk

    May 21, 2019 at 5:06 pm

    I have met six guys who know about this. One was a straight guy who I got talking to online and we arranged meet up out in the countryside. He wanted me to get streak marks in my pants and then when I took them off and gave them to him he smelt them, got his cock out and came within a couple of minutes saying, I can smell your shit.

    Another was a gay who regularly spanked and caned me (another fetish) and he gave me examinations before starting punishment. He once said how he hoped I had a clean bottom and I asked him what would happen if I didn’t. He said he’d have to clean it so the next time I went I made sure I had not wiped properly after pooping and he did what he said, took toilet paper and cleaned my anus and crack telling me how disgusting I was. We never really talked about our enjoyment of poo but I’d suggest different scenarios and he was mainly happy with them. He gave me suppositories and watched me empty myself afterwards, the same with an enema. Then I asked him to hold a container whilst I pooed in it, which he did before wiping me and then I combined it twice with being caned, once filling my pants as he caned me and once pooing whilst being caned naked.

    The other four guys were all escorts, two of whom were happy for me to shit on them and then smear as we both came and the other two pooped on my chest.

  • willyjohn

    May 22, 2019 at 8:14 pm

    I have recently discovered that a friend with whom I play and who enjoys watersports likes scat play the same as me and wants to be fed straight from the source. He also tells me he enjoys eating his own and wants to extend the scope of our play. We frequently talk on the phone about it and are now planning to share the experience.

  • jcpp7622

    May 24, 2019 at 1:35 pm

    I’ve told no one except those on this website or WBH back in the day. It’s too risky and who knows what can happen if information leaks out. Even still I’m quite on edge even posting here sometimes especially since the website went down a few times without warning and after the hack a couple of years ago.

  • cyberdolphnow

    May 24, 2019 at 4:53 pm

    Tell someone? Kind of because:
    I have worked on the scat part relationship with my female wife for now 10 years. She went from not even having the bathroom door open while peeing to full on accepting the fetish. She is now my passive scat queen meaning that she doesnt play but allows me and provides scat for me. Our daily interaction is that she doesn’t ever wipe her ass anymore preferring for me to at minimum to wipe it out with a wet wipe/washcloth at maximum using my tongue and mouth then a wet wipe. And she’ll save wiping for later if I’m not available because she just doesn’t wipe her ass unless I’m away traveling.

    As for her reaction:
    She’s even gotten me items (like small pillows, mouse pad, etc) with the poop emoji cartoon character as our inside joke.
    And What does she say?
    “Before you try to kiss me, did you already wash out your mouth?”

    And jcpp7622: I copy and paste everything i post here into my private email to myself so I don’t lose it.

  • gentlepoopeer66

    May 25, 2019 at 9:49 pm

    No I haven’t. I did ask my wife to go poop in front of me one time and she did but only could get a couple pieces out. I really want her to watch me go and then wipe me, but she would be horrified if I told her that.

  • Anonymous

    Deleted User
    May 27, 2019 at 6:09 am

    My wife caught me out with full pants and giggled at me. She thought it was funny and she still allows me to fill my pants but I do it alone and she then spanks me for it. She has spanked me on full panties once. The most amazing feeling ever, and I want her to do it again.

  • tattsandkink

    May 31, 2019 at 4:50 am

    I have told close friends who are aware of what I am into (pissing myself and seeing hot well built masc guys who piss theit pants!)! I don’t feel any shame for it! They just accepted it!

  • sugar.b.lover440

    August 13, 2019 at 12:01 pm

    The only person I’ve told is my wife, and this was well before we got married. Surprisingly she didn’t mind. Now she has zero interest in it, but farts and shits in my presence with no shame, partly because she knows i love it. That’s it; i haven’t told anyone else in all my years.

  • sowhat

    August 24, 2019 at 6:28 am

    No, I haven’t told anyone, don’t have friends.

  • tattsandkink

    August 24, 2019 at 6:42 am

    I don’t feel shame but I am utterly despised by the fetish community because I don’t hide my identity despite being a repulsively ugly gay man who is not muscular or built enough to be considered worthy! I guess seeing my face destroys the fantasy the closted guys have!

    • jcpp7622

      August 25, 2019 at 12:19 pm

      I don’t feel shame but I am utterly despised by the fetish community because I don’t hide my identity despite being a repulsively ugly gay man who is not muscular or built enough to be considered worthy! I guess seeing my face destroys the fantasy the closeted guys have!

      Why are they jealous? That is truly awesome that you can do that.

      Looks are deceiving. The most “beautiful” people are usually shallow and all into themselves with little or no consideration of others. There’s that old saying the beauty is only skin deep and it’s true.

      • tattsandkink

        August 25, 2019 at 1:35 pm

        I am ok with how I look! I just don’t appreciate the bad attitude because I am out about my fetish!

  • colleenspooping

    August 24, 2019 at 10:21 am

    My parents know and that is it they allow me to go in my pants whenever I feel I need to poop I love that I am accepted by my parents I even pissed in my panties yesterday over the poop and smeared it on my ass cheeks I was in the kitchen at my parents house smearing they don’t care we’re I smear and I few months ago I was in the living room at their house sitting on the couch smearing poop all over my tits I love it that my parents are ok with me and my fetish’s the other day in my mother’s car upfront pasinger sit I pooped my pants and took my shirt off and smeared all over my tits on the way home from my parents house my mom is my live saver I love it when I’m in the car with her and sometimes she grabs my tits and helps me smear if I haven’t got my whole tit covered with poop my tits are big

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      • frankyfrank

        March 30, 2020 at 11:07 am

        Wow! that was hot Peter, And she looks cute. Was her pussy smelly? Did she ever shit her pants?

  • cpuman100

    March 21, 2020 at 11:56 am

    I only told a small amount of my lady friends. They were not bothered by it.

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  • patrick

    March 30, 2020 at 12:28 pm

    Wooow, lucky guy you are Peterdragon ! Do you have any pis of your wife (or ex-wife ?) clad in her pooped pants, leggings, skintight jeans… !! She is very cute , hot and sexy on her pics… would to see her pooping those jeans.

    My GF regurlarly pees her slutty super-skintight jeans but se very seldom poop them…. !!

  • yourenotusedtothis

    April 29, 2020 at 10:23 pm

    I told all my friends. 😂 they like to make fun of me, but I like what I like and you don’t get to choose what turns you on. I kinda just own it now and it hardly ever comes up

  • ostretch

    May 25, 2020 at 10:00 pm

    I’ve got a few exs who knew I had a thing for pants wetting and pee related stuff. We split on good terms each time so I’m not worried about it getting out. I’ve also got a close friend who knows about that thing.

    I’ve never told anyone about the poop side though. Feels way more risky and there is so much more potential for judgement. I can kind of understand why.

  • splendor

    July 9, 2020 at 10:32 pm

    Yes I have
    Ended in a whooping by my parents
    So now only those interested I patronizing me gets to know my fetishes

    I guess they have the same too

    Lol..scat fetish is not easily accepted
    Revealing it might create issues

  • lp1986

    July 11, 2020 at 8:24 am

    Personally, I would not ever feel comfortable telling anyone, and I blame the “scat” umbrella term attatched to all this. I enjoy recording myself panty pooping, full stop. I enjoy it on my own and in the privacy of my own living space. It’s vanilla, but that’s my thing. I would not even bring that up, even if I found out a guy I knew had a scat fetish, because unless he’s only specifically into what I do, there’s no benefit of me disclosing that information. I just can’t see any scenario where that person wouldn’t want to push the envelope for me to do something that fit their fetish desires, and I’m not comfortable being in that situation. It’s crazy but this is a fetish where your thing seems fine to you, but a slight deviation may be repulsive or degrading. (like for me, I find role play fantasies to be degrading to women, so I don’t entertain them, but unfortunately it’s a thing people like doing in the panty poop community) That type of thing would be something that could sour the entire fetish for me, and I don’t want to ruin my personal enjoyment for it because someone else wants or pressures me to do something else.

  • curiousboi

    July 11, 2020 at 3:20 pm

    I have a thing for seeing guys taking a dump, in their pants or otherwise, and I’ve told some of the guys I’ve hooked up with about it. I didn’t really tell them “I have a fetish for this…” so much as teasingly told them it would be hot if they did it and even offered to suck them off during… in a way where they could either just laugh it off as a joke or take me up on it. Surprisingly quite a few of them did take me up on it, including my current bf who has crapped his pants a number of times now and doesn’t mind it at all (because I do all the clean up for him…)

    But I get what lp1986 is saying. I have very specific limits to what turns me on e.g. I am not into hardcore scat at all, or anything involving *me* shitting… I only like to watch/tease other guys doing it. I am honestly less worried about telling a guy who isn’t into it and who will just say “nope sorry not my thing” then telling a scat fetishist who will then try to push the envelope and keep bugging me to do things that are a turn off for me. As soon as a guys starts talking about how he wants me to take a crap I’m like “sorry bye…”

    This is why I actually don’t end up chatting a lot with guys on here… my experience is most of them don’t listen and don’t respect other ppl’s limits, they just want to pressure you into participating in whatever their own fantasy is. And like you said this kind of fetish is very specific for everyone, even something that is only slightly different from what turns you on can be a total turn off.

  • Anonymous

    Deleted User
    July 12, 2020 at 1:28 am

    I have told friends that if you never had a golden shower you cannot say you really ever had sex in your life. Everyone laughed but nobody questioned that because i’m always super chill about sex so I guess they expect that from me.

  • wetlove69

    July 13, 2020 at 3:01 am

    i told my girlfriend and shes ok with it, and has even pooped her pants for me.

  • teefyspooder

    July 31, 2020 at 12:35 am

    Yeh pretty much everyone I know knows now. Aside some LOL remarks nothing bad.

  • blueskyparis

    July 31, 2020 at 10:41 am

    teefyspooder – > you really tell it to your friends like it is nothing ? wow !

    I told an ex girlfriend it would be great if she poop and pee her pants because I find it exciting (my basic rules : the consent of two adults in private in a “relaxed” context).
    She told me about some accidents she had (essentially wetting)
    She pooped her panties for me several times, some diapers too,
    I liked the fact she let it go with some sort of “surprised” look,
    I managed the “after” logistics (you know, the cleaning etc.),
    I knew she wasn’t really into it so I didn’t insisted, and I was obviously deeply gratefull, cause it was some sort of personal “gift”
    It was pretty simple, but I know it is not the majority of the cases.

  • diaperedjoey

    July 31, 2020 at 2:35 pm

    my 22 y/o niece knows,i never told her anything she just told me one night she knew i pooped my pants alot

  • nycbisweetiepea

    August 29, 2020 at 10:51 am

    I cried and cried because I thought something was wrong with me and I was so afraid of judgement. My long time partner I was living with at the time told me “it’s weird. It’s different but there’s nothing at all wrong with you. Your a good person and nothing can take that away. I still love you.”
    Then she asked me what I liked abt it and she was like… “actually nvm rather not know.” Yea telling her my favorite kind of poop was a little much to process. The 4 years after this in our relationship was really good. We rarely spoke of my fetish but we acknowledged it. Now we r just friends and she still keeps the secret. She asked me what I see in the person I see now that I don’t see in her. I said literally nothing but she should know we share “that fetish.” She understood exactly

  • nycbisweetiepea

    August 29, 2020 at 11:04 am


    Huh. By parents are you talking of bdsm kink parents or are you talking about your biological parents? Just wondering. You said they r like you. Do they have a scat fetish or are they into bdsm? Do they openly play in front of you or is it just poo?
    I’m just trying to get a sense since it is very rare for parents to be open with their kids abt this.

  • colleenspooping

    August 29, 2020 at 3:35 pm


    Yes my biological parents there into scat they like to smear and go naked with shit smeared on them in the house or around the yard I don’t mind seeing them naked like that I pissed in my moms car yesterday I was wearing a short dress and no underwear I pissed all over the seat she wasn’t paying attention so she didn’t know I had pissed the music was very loud so she couldn’t hear the piss hissing out of me

  • nycbisweetiepea

    August 29, 2020 at 9:50 pm


    I could kind of see that. Culturally my parents are not very open but I’m 85% sure my dad has a scat fetish too. He only wanted my mom to poop with the door open but who knows. In my mind he passed down the trait to me lol

  • transpoo

    September 5, 2020 at 4:55 pm

    I only discovered I had this fetish a couple months ago, but I dont plan on ever telling anyone in my social circle. Im pretty embarrassed by it and I know I would never live it down. I have no idea how my gf would react if she found out. But I wouldnt blame her for thinking Im a freak if she did.

  • ninanika

    September 6, 2020 at 1:12 pm

    I can’t say that I talked openly about my fetish with anyone in my normal life. However, some things that many people hide, I do not hide from my husband. I can go pee or poop in front of him and not hide my dirty Laundry from him.

  • nastyboystupid

    September 11, 2020 at 11:00 am

    No, I haven’t spoken to anyone about it yet. Even if you can talk openly about many sexual preferences today, the subject of poop remains a taboo. I fear a lot of people think you’re crazy if you tell them you’re passionate about pooping your pants. This is shown by the many comments on this topic in other sex or fetish forums – unfortunately that’s the case …

  • Anonymous

    Deleted User
    September 12, 2020 at 11:01 pm

    Yes, and people have cut me off as a result. I tried talking to girls on meetme and facebook when I was 18 about pooping habits and such, and they didn’t like that. I had normal conversations then tried to joke about it. They typically caught on and backed away slowly or just stopped talking. I did get one girl who I almost dated to send videos of herself on the toilet, but I cut ties after realizing things weren’t going to work (no, I will not share them out of respect for her. Besides, the hard drive they’re on is corrupted and I don’t even know where it’s at). Now, I keep my fetish to myself and here.

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