I’m not entirely sure what I’m trying to acheive by writing this, but it has occured to me that I really am not at all interested in ‘intercourse’ as such. I know this is a pretentious topic for some, but I really struggle to see myself ever having a relationship with a guy that didnt share this fetish and only wanted ‘the norm’. I’ve never been in a relationship, I don’t have a gay-dar and I’m straight acting so people don’t even beleive me when I explain to them that I like guys. Again, I’m only really writing this just so that I can get it out of my head. Does anyone else feel the same way? I just simply cant stand the idea of going through the ordeal of going to some club or whatever and hitting and then having to explain all this shit. It just wouldnt be fair or appropriate. Is there really no romance left in the world? or is it just fucking that people do these days (as ive been lead to beleive by observations made whilst at university haha). I’m not complaining or feeling sorry for myself, I’m perfectly happy being single, it really doesnt bother me. as a creative/academic minded person i’ve always thought that I’d rather fuck minds than fuck people lol. It would just be nice to know that I’m not alone in thinking like this. cheers x 

Edit: I might set up a group on here for asexual/celibate people if anyone is interested? I’m not religious myself by the way, but I imagine the pressure from society must be felt in a similar way.

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  1. You are not alone, I feel as you describe. Intercourse and relationships are not, and have never been, of interest to me.

  2. I understand your post, even though I am in a loving relationship. Sexual intercourse is not so much of a big deal to me, and if the relationship was to become non-sexual, I really wouldn’t have a problem with that. I do however think that having this fetish for wet and messy undies becomes a problem in that it does arouse the strongest sexual urges for me, and always ends with masturbation. So, while I would love to meet another guy who likes to wet and mess his pants, it would always have to be with the proviso that there is no sexual activity beyond masturbation, and I guess this is why I haven’t met anyone to share the fetish with. I know it seems a bit confusing, but I hope it makes sense.

  3. I am with you as well! I love nice guys’ butts in tight trousers or when guy get gassy or get the shits – but I’m not interested in sexual intercourse with them.

  4. And I thought I was the only one that felt like that. To quote Meatloaf ‘you took the words etc.’ lol.

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