I’m not entirely sure what I’m trying to acheive by writing this, but it has occured to me that I really am not at all interested in ‘intercourse’ as such. I know this is a pretentious topic for some, but I really struggle to see myself ever having a relationship with a guy that didnt share this fetish and only wanted ‘the norm’. I’ve never been in a relationship, I don’t have a gay-dar and I’m straight acting so people don’t even beleive me when I explain to them that I like guys. Again, I’m only really writing this just so that I can get it out of my head. Does anyone else feel the same way? I just simply cant stand the idea of going through the ordeal of going to some club or whatever and hitting and then having to explain all this shit. It just wouldnt be fair or appropriate. Is there really no romance left in the world? or is it just fucking that people do these days (as ive been lead to beleive by observations made whilst at university haha). I’m not complaining or feeling sorry for myself, I’m perfectly happy being single, it really doesnt bother me. as a creative/academic minded person i’ve always thought that I’d rather fuck minds than fuck people lol. It would just be nice to know that I’m not alone in thinking like this. cheers x
Edit: I might set up a group on here for asexual/celibate people if anyone is interested? I’m not religious myself by the way, but I imagine the pressure from society must be felt in a similar way.